Ever wonder why on TV couples go from kissing to full blown orgasm within the time it takes you to refill your wine glass? Well, this isn’t realistic. The sexual response cycle is complex and there are necessary stages to progress through—these are called the phases of arousal. No idea what that means? Watch this video, and appreciate and embrace the stages the body goes through to reach the final peak of orgasm. By better understanding the sexual response, and the sensations that are occurring in your body, we hope you'll gain further awareness and confidence and be able to savor and appreciate each moment. It doesn’t have to be all about the O.